That is good that the gender is set at this point, so if I wanted to know the gender first I assume I could just open the on screen hex editor and go to the correct offset and check the value to know before choosing to accept the card or not.
If so what offset would I go to and what values would correspond to each gender?
Edit: I successfully found the wc6 data and dumped it with NTR debugging thanks to all your info. Also nicely NTR doesn't cause unwanted key presses.
Command used (must change pid)
data(0x08c695bc, 0x108, filename='infernape.wc6', pid=0x28)
I still would like to know how to check gender before accepting the card. I just need to know where in the wc6 data to look. Since loading it in the editor doesn't help since it has a known problem with genders.